Anonymous asked: Oh wow, I think you were raped like I was. He didn't like force me physically. He was my boyfriend and we had sex all the time. But whenever I didn't want to he would say stuff like I must be cheating on him or I didn't love him and guilt me into having sex with him, even though I didn't want to. That is rape isn't it?
That is absolutely rape.
[TW: discussion of rape]
And yeah, that’s what my boyfriend did. We had consensual sex once (although from all the other abuse, I’m not even completely sure about that…) and then every time after it was, “If you really loved me, you’d do this for me,” or “Why, are you sleeping with someone else?”
Did we have the same boyfriend? :P (sorry, trying to make light of a heavy subject)
He also molested me on a regular basis without guilting me. He just thought my body belonged to him and he had every right to touch me even when I was pushing his hands away from me and yelling at him to stop.
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