Anonymous asked: The guy I dated was a Catholic and I am an atheist now, but not because of that. It is crazy, the same thing that happened to you, happened to me. It took me forever to get that it really was rape because it wasn't obvious and I had agreed before. My boyfriend would always touch me when I didn't want him to also. Like in public or even when we were alone and I just didn't want him to. It is comforting for you to call it rape also.
I had the exact same thing happen. I’m so sorry you lived through that too. But the good thing is, you’re out of it and now you recognize it.
I agree, it’s really comforting to find other survivors who see that as rape because much of society does not.
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timedreams said:
It upsets me so much how people don’t recognize this as rape. We had a police officer come to our school and talk about all this stuff and she basically said if you don’t shout no, it’s not rape, and I got so upset. Consent =/= not saying no
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doubtingansley posted this
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